Why I’m Choosing to Skip Waxing — Natural Body Hair
Smooth legs. Hairless arms. Perfectly waxed brows. For decades, these ideals defined what it meant to be “groomed” or “feminine.” But for me, that definition has shifted. I’m choosing to skip waxing not out of rebellion, but out of self-love. I’m learning to embrace natural body hair, and it’s been one of the most liberating decisions of my adult life.

The Waxing Culture: A Quick Look Back
Hair removal isn’t new. From ancient Egypt to 90s pop culture, women (and increasingly men) have been expected to remove body hair. The message has been consistent: smooth = clean, beautiful, and desirable.
But have we ever asked ourselves why?
The Cost of Conformity
Waxing is not just painful. It’s expensive, time-consuming, and sometimes even harmful to the skin. Here’s what I used to endure:
- Biweekly appointments averaging $60-$100
- Ingrown hairs, irritation, and redness
- A low-key obsession with hair growth cycles
- Anxiety before vacations or events
And for what? To meet a beauty standard that wasn’t mine to begin with?
My Turning Point: Choosing to Stop Waxing
It started during the pandemic when salons shut down. At first, I felt uneasy about letting my body hair grow. But as weeks passed, something unexpected happened: I got comfortable. I noticed:
- My skin felt less irritated and healthier
- I had more time and mental energy
- I didn’t hate how I looked
In fact, I began appreciating the soft fuzz on my legs, the light underarm hair, and even the texture of my arms. It felt like I was finally meeting a version of myself I’d never allowed to exist.
Body Hair and Beauty: Let’s Talk Perception
One of the biggest hurdles to embracing natural body hair is the way society perceives it. We’re told it’s dirty, lazy, or unattractive. But these are cultural constructs, not facts.
What the Research Says
According to a 2021 study published in the Journal of Gender Studies, more women are actively resisting hair removal norms, especially among Gen Z and millennials. The shift is slow but undeniable. For more
Even celebrities and influencers are starting to challenge the status quo. From Amandla Stenberg to Florence Pugh, public figures are making natural body hair more visible and accepted.

Pros of Embracing Natural Body Hair
Here are some tangible, real-life benefits I’ve experienced since I chose to skip waxing:
1. Time Freedom
No more scheduling appointments or spending hours in salons. I’ve reclaimed that time for things I actually enjoy.
2. Cost Savings
Skipping waxing has saved me hundreds of dollars a year. That’s money I now put towards skincare, travel, or savings.
3. Skin Health
No more razor bumps, burns, or harsh chemicals. My skin is thriving in its natural state.
4. Body Confidence
Loving my body in its natural form has boosted my self-esteem. I no longer feel the need to “fix” myself.
But What About Social Judgment?
Yes, it still exists. People may stare. Friends may ask questions. Some might even make jokes. But here’s the thing:
- Confidence is contagious
- Discomfort is part of change
- Every movement starts with a few brave voices
I’m not saying everyone should stop waxing. I’m saying everyone should have the freedom to choose without shame.
A Quick Comparison: Waxing vs. Embracing Natural Hair
Factor | Waxing | Embracing Natural Hair |
---|---|---|
Cost | High (ongoing expenses) | Zero or minimal |
Skin impact | Can cause irritation/damage | Natural and less invasive |
Maintenance | Frequent | Low |
Body confidence | External validation | Self-acceptance |
Time commitment | Significant | Minimal |
Small Steps to Start Your Journey
If you’re curious but hesitant, start small:
- Skip one waxing session and observe how you feel
- Follow body-positive influencers who embrace natural body hair
- Talk about it with supportive friends or online communities
- Use affirmations to reframe beauty: “My natural body is worthy.”
Final Thoughts: Redefining What Beautiful Means
Beauty should be a choice, not a chore. Choosing to skip waxing doesn’t mean rejecting grooming altogether. It means embracing authenticity, comfort, and confidence on your own terms.
Natural body hair isn’t a trend. It’s a reality for most of us — and it’s time we normalize it.
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Have you ever thought about skipping waxing? Are you already embracing your natural body hair? Let’s talk! Drop a comment below or share this post with a friend who needs to hear this message. 💬
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